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Making Decision During Transitions
filed in Mind, Body Connection on May 19, 2007
There is an emotional roller coaster that occurs because of the grief involved in a loss of a relationship. And because of this it can be difficult to make decisions. But, there are decision to be made that cannot wait.
How do you make a decision when so much of your future is unknown. Do you sell the house, keep the house, relocate, look for a job now, go back to school, get a roommate, change jobs, get a second job etc. If you are looking for a absolute answer to these questions; an answer that represent what you want to do with the rest of your life, you will have trouble making a decision.
Decision are based on the information we presently have. We do not know the future, nor do we know how and what we will feel six months or six years from now. So, the decision we make today, may not fit six months or six years down the road.
Always go within and ask what is in your highest good at this time. Let go of an attitude that says, “I can only be happy if such and such happens”. Then listen with your heart and be ready to receive an answer. Know that what you decide today is probably what is best, but when you ask again six months or a year later when you and your world are different and you have more informations, the answer may be different. Stay in the moment and do the best you can right now.
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